Ignorance is bliss....

   I read an article a few minutes ago that set my blood to boiling. Granted...it was a year or so old so I pray someone has come to their senses since it was written...but I doubt it.

   This article concerned the fact that the SyFy show "Ghost Hunters" had been denied access to an abandoned mental hospital in Connecticut. The committee denying access stated, and I'm paraphrasing, that they wished the "dark past" of the hospital to be forgotten as they had plans for the remaining buildings. They wish to transform what's left into, I believe, a municipal complex and other businesses/offices.

   Wtf????? Seriously?????

   Now...I'm not saying that an area that has witnessed horrors, like this place has claimed to, can't have a thriving future. No.....I'm not saying that at all. What I am saying is you can't put a band-aid on a bullet wound and expect it to heal properly.

   Anyone who has ever spent any time in a location fraught with violence, sickness, disease and emotional turmoil knows there is a residue left...an energy. If there are instances where the degradation and mistreatment of people have been perpetrated by those who were supposed to help them then the situation worsens. Those souls who depended on authority figures to give permission for the most basic of human functions will not likely leave simply because the place is abandoned. No...they will stay. They will stay and re-live the horrors meant to "cure" them.

   I understand not wanting attention brought to such a dark and violent past. I really do. What I don't understand is the complete and total ignorance to the possible outcome of ignoring it. I don't understand why anyone would wish another person to work, or spend time, in a place where events such as these have happened without doing anything to help the souls who are still there....too afraid to leave. Don't want it televized? Fine. But at least allow people in there who truly want to bring peace to those left behind and closure, if possible, to a moment in time that never should have happened in the first place.

   For those who don't believe that spirits of previous mental patients may still walk the halls of Fairfield Hills....that's ok. You don't have to. But you lose nothing in trying to help them.

   My sincerest wish is that those in charge see this blog. That they consider, for even a moment, the possibility I'm right. That they allow people in there to help. If I'm wrong....you've lost nothing but a few days. If I'm right....you've saved yourself from the headaches that are sure to come your way if the situation remains ignored.

   Trust me...your future employees will thank you.

   Blessed Be )O(

I'll take "Fate" for $300...

   I was musing today about the funny quirks of life and how much, or little, control we have over our own destiny. A strange train of thought, to be sure, but one I think bodes a closer look sometimes.

   I started thinking about my life, in particular, because a coworker told me how proud she was of me. How it was inspiring what I have accomplished against the odds I was dealt. She said..." You could have went a whole other way...". I knew what she meant, too.

   It's true. I could have laid down and let life beat me when I thought I had nothing left to fight with. I'm so glad I didn't. But I'm not giving myself too much credit on that. No.....and here's why....

   I believe it was fate, to a certain extent. I know it's taken some pretty big balls to get over my obstacles but just getting over them wasn't enough. I was being tested.

   Yes....I said it. Tested.

   We all are, I think. To see which road fate will lead us down based on how we handle what's thrown at us. Think about that for a minute.....think of all the things you can come face to face with in your life. Every experience that is meant to shape you.

   From failed marriage, to lost loves. The death of unborn children, to betrayal of friendship and heart. To be put in the path of people so vile that, to you, they seem to be soulless. Greed, lies, manipulation. To be tested constantly on how much you can take and how serenely you can rise above it. I know we have all been in these situations in one way or another. Does it not make sense that it is all to propel us towards something better?

   Even the timing of events seem to be steered by a hand other than our own. How the worst situations can bring you into the fold of the best, and most valued, of friendships. How you can reunite with souls from your past that are meant to travel with you, and guide you, on your journey. Tis truly a gift...this game of life. One that I intend to cherish. Whatever lesson it throws my way. I only wish the same for us all.

   Blessed Be )O(

 

Swan dive off "The Edge..."

   Coming up with blog topics isn't always easy. Lol. I guess that's why I'm so sporadic when it comes to writing them. I just write what I feel or about a topic that has been on my twitter feed.

   This one is a little different. I'm not too terribly big into "self-promotion" but I'm gonna give it a go for just a minute.

   A couple months ago my friend, and publisher, Mike Ricksecker and I started a new venture. We started our radio show "Edge of the Rabbit Hole" on LiveParanormal.com. I must say I was scared shitless to do it. In all honesty, if I had to do it all by myself I probably wouldn't. True story.

   However, going out on this limb with a friend made it a lot easier and a ton more fun for me. It has enabled me to meet, and interview, people I may never have gotten the chance to otherwise. So far we've been blessed to have, as guests, Dave Spinks, David Weatherly, Marla Brooks, Robbie Thomas and Rob Gutro. All amazing guest who made this a wonderful experience for me...and prepared me for our next guest on March 8th...Mr. Dustin Pari!!! Yeppers...that's right folks. I am so excited for this interview! I hope he's ready for my list of questions! 😉

   Please be sure to give us a listen and feel free to jump in the chat room, as well. We discuss all things paranormal and occult throughout history. We fully expect to delve deeper into the mysteries that surround us than anyone before...and we sincerely wish you to join us.

   Don't forget...every other Tuesday at 9pm Eastern with the next show being March 8th...special guest Mr. Dustin Pari on LiveParanormal. Com "Edge of the Rabbit Hole".

   Love y'all!!! Blessed Be )O(

Whatcha lookin at?

   I've ran across a couple of post in the last few days discussing what is evidence of the paranormal and what isn't. These are very good...and very hard to answer....questions.

   The most discussed is orbs. Are they real? How can you tell? Do you have proof?

   Well, kiddos, as usual I'm gonna hit ya straight from the hip with a good, solid, well thought out answer.

   I don't know.

   Yes, you heard it right here from the horses mouth. I do not know. I can tell you what I have witnessed myself. I can tell you of my experience with this "taboo" evidence and you can draw your own conclusions.

   As most investigators, I have also come across my share of orbs...*cough*...(dust) while on investigation and upon viewing the evidence later. I have seen many pics that show transparent balls in all sizes...all with a little pin prick of density directly in the center. It IS my belief that these are dust particles caught on film. I've tested this myself and found that these images can be very misleading. That having been said, I have found that images can be caught that appear to be lit from within and have, what seems to be, a more solid core. Less transparent. These can vary in color and shape, as well. If you capture anything in this category, and it is accompanied by other evidence, it is likely that your claim of an orb may be correct.

   There are other anomalies that can be caught, as well. Such as flashing lights, mist and shadows. Unfortunately, these are extremely easy to fake in a still shot. Less easy if they are in color and show movement, but it can be done. If there is ever a question, when viewing a photo, make sure that the original is available for viewing so that the background can be verified. It is entirely too easy to blow out a candle and call it proof. Just food for thought!!

   Blessed Be )O(

Underwater BB Stacking....

   Alright, kiddos...brace yourself cause I'm feeling feisty. I've had a shit week and am not caring too much how I am perceived at the moment.

   It has come to my attention that there is a rumor going around that there are "EXPERTS" in this field. Go ahead...have a chuckle...you know I did.

   Let's set the record straight. The paranormal, as of right now...this moment, is not science. Yes....teams/individuals use equipment. Yes...this is used to gatherevidence/proof. Yes...sometimes it works. HOWEVER...it is not an exact science.

   Sure...you can get a degree in "parapsychology" online for $45 and it looks real impressive when it's framed. But it is only a piece of paper. A real parapsychology degree can only be obtained once you have a PHD in another scientific field. Then...and only then can this happen. Now...for those who are interested in the subject you need to know the definition is (paraphrased....pun intended) the study of paranormal phenomenon such as clairvoyance, telekinesis and the like. It is not...I repeat NOT...a degree that involves ghost hunting.

   My reasons for posting this is because there are a whole lot of people out there putting big stock in a degree that means as much as one in under water BB stacking.

   A couple of my good friends got screwed out of credit for their hard work because an individual used their, and many other teams, evidence to substantiate his claim of being haunted...but chose the team with the "fanciest credentials" to give credit too.

   Now...I'm not blaming that particular team. They had no control over how he submitted the evidence to the news station. They had no control over what he said in the interview, either. This is not about them. What it IS about is the publics misconception about what makes you an authority in matters such as these.

   As for the homeowners who conduct themselves in a similar manner and cherry pick how they want someone else's evidence to be shown....be warned. The paranormal community has a long memory. And they talk. A lot.

   They do not lie down and take it when they get cheated. Just saying.

   As for those teams who find themselves in a similar situation...protect yourself. Client contracts, both paper and video confirmation of intentions. In this day and age it isn't only teams looking for fame...it's everyday Joes, too.

   Just food for thought, peeps!

   Blessed Be )O(

A Necessary Reminder...

   I had one of those moments today that brought everything into perspective. An epiphany, if you will, that was both humbling and appreciated.

   I met someone. A woman who started talking to me about the paranormal field. She began to tell me of her family members experiences and of the step-dauhter she never got the chance to meet.

   I could see the child clearly in my mind and took the risk of telling her what I saw. The only information I had to go on, from the woman, was that the child was 17 months old when she was murdered.

   Please...take a moment to digest what I just said. It took me a minute, too.

   I could feel a small portion of what the child had went through. I could feel the pressure of hands on her chest. I could see her beautiful, dark complexioned, face smiling at me even though she was dying.

   I told her what I felt. I described the child to her, mixed race and all. I drew her a picture showing long eyelashes and little pigtails. I also told her it was unintentional. Yes, she was murdered, but it was unintentional.

   She sat there, nodding her head, confirming everything I said. Right down to the fact that the child's biological mother was completely wacked out on drugs when she drowned the little girl in the bathtub.

   Please keep in mind I had just met this woman. This white woman. I knew nothing of her personal life prior to this. Also, keep in mind, this is NOT a blog where I am looking for praise or kudos for a gift I never asked for.

   No.

   This is a "wake up" blog for anyone in the paranormal field who only cares about fame, recognition and notoriety. People, please...I beg you, if that is all you are after reconsider. Become an actor if you want to be on TV that bad. I am here to tell you that no amount of fame will EVER replace the look on someone's face when they know their loved one is happy and at peace.

   For those who alter/fake/manipulate/distort evidence in order to move their name/team along...well...I feel incredibly sorry for you. You will probably never understand the importance of truth when it comes to giving a family hope or closure.

   Please, if you find yourself in a position where you have to fabricate evidence in order to please the masses, think of this little girl. I know I will...for the rest of my life.

   Blessed Be )O(

We'll meet again...

   There was a discussion on twitter the other day. A paranormal site brought up the conversation about whether or not loved ones meet up after death.

   I will admit I refrained from posting much on this particular thread. Not because I don't have strong beliefs on the subject, but because I do...and I didn't want to intrude on the more religious point of views being displayed.

   I do, however, feel free to speak here as this is my domain and can say what I wish without fear of offending too many people. By now most of my viewers know how I roll and can guess on what they're getting themselves into. Lol.


   I do believe that loved ones meet up after death, but I don't necessarily believe it has to do with coming back to guide the newly deceased loved one to heaven. Nor do I believe that spirits left behind are demons or lost souls in purgatory.

   I believe that people who have passed can come and go as they please, from whatever realm they choose to reside in after death. I believe when we are no longer able to contact a spirit, one who has been quite vocal in the past, it may be because they have reincarnated. Just one of the options, yes, but a valid one.

   I may sound kind of out there for some folks, but let's face it. None of us know for certain. There is no hard evidence that hell, heaven, purgatory or any of that exist. There just isn't. I've been communicating with spirits most of my life and have yet to have one speak of any of those places. Does that mean I'm right?

   Nope...it sure doesn't. Not even a little bit.

   What it does mean is that, for those of us interested in the paranormal, it may behoove us to keep an open mind not clouded by religious views. People were coming into this world, and leaving it, long before the written word of man. Communication with spirits is a practice as old as humans, themselves. In our quest to find the answers we seek we need to be armed with best equipment available.

   An open mind and an understanding heart.

   Blessed Be )O(